Secrets That Will Break Your Relationship
Rarely will any relationship survive on secrets. It is very common that after you have been dating a person for only a short while, you get a good idea of their lifestyle. It is, however, possible that the person will keep some dark secrets and try to shield them so that you never know of them. If you have a feeling that he is definitely hiding something from you, you are better off looking for some telltale signs to get everything to the light.
If you don’t know enough or much about your partner’s parents, there may be some reasons for this. He may shy away from the fact that you may want to be introduced to the parents if the topic comes. He may not get along well with the parents for reasons he wants to keep in secrecy. You will need to establish who they are and how they grew up if you are still interested to continue with the relationship.
Do not be at peace if you don’t know his friends yet.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual. He may be using it to get to something or someone he doesn’t want you to know about.Again, He might actually have friends but may be afraid you will not approve of them, or they may not approve of you. Regardless of the reason, so long as you want to know the truth, consider using some force so that you are kept in the light.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it. What he does may be different from what he said he does or he may not be working at all.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. Reasons may abound as to why he refrains from mentioning the names.The first reason may be that they are still in touch. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships.Either way; you must be sure that he is not hiding something dangerous.
There may be pockets of darkness or secrets in the life of your new man. You may be lucky that your man is just shy and fails to disclose many things. Worth noting is the fact that as long as a man is serious in the relationship, he will scarcely hesitate to take you to his home so that you know the place and how he lives. He will try all means for you to know his place.
Whenever you wonder why your new man is very secretive, simply look out for these signs and ensure he is not trying to keep you in the dark.